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The only responsibility that a man cannot evade in this life is the one he thinks of least,--his personal influence.
William George Jordanverified·The Power of Personal Influence, in The Majesty of Calmness·circa 1899
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The only responsibility that a man cannot evade in this life is the one he thinks of least,--his personal influence.
There are men and women whose presence seems to radiate sunshine, cheer and optimism.
To make our influence felt we must live our faith, we must practice what we believe.
Trifles unnoted by us may be links in the chain of some great purpose.
We should ever let our influence filter through human love and sympathy.
We should not be merely an influence,--we should be an inspiration.
We exhort you, brothers: Admonish the disorderly; encourage the faint-hearted; support the weak; be patient toward all.
See that no one returns evil for evil to anyone, but always follow after that which is good for one another and for all.
He who calls you is faithful, who will also do it.
Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but when longing is fulfilled, it is a tree of life.
One who walks with wise men grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.
Had it not been for the persistent encouragement of Miss Sullivan, I think I should have given up trying to write altogether.
Fatal is the discovery that our friend is fallible, that he has prejudices.
Our thoughts would imply that other men have friends, though we have not.
granting that we had both the will and the sense to choose our friends well, how few of us have the power! or, at least, how limited, for most, is the sphere of choice!
not to find friends at a time when you want them is hard, as also not to be able to exchange an inconstant and bad friend for a constant and good one
Now the discourse that ought to come from friends and people disposed to be helpful should be consolation, and not mere assent with a man's sad feelings.
Our friendships hurry to short and poor conclusions, because we have made them a texture of wine and dreams, instead of the tough fibre of the human heart.
What a perpetual disappointment is actual society, even of the virtuous and gifted!
Amongst ourselves we are unendingly cheerful, but what each man feels in his heart I can only guess.
The very flexibility and ease which make men's friendships so agreeable while they endure, make them the easier to destroy and forget.
Parents we can have but once; and he promises himself too much, who enters life with the expectation of finding many friends.
A long life may be passed without finding a friend in whose understanding and virtue we can equally confide, and whose opinion we can value at once for its justness and sincerity.
If a man stumbles, it is a good thing to help him to his feet. Every one of us needs a helping hand now and then.
The spectacle of effort is what awakens and sustains our own effort.
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